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 Posted: Mon Jul 16th, 2007 09:34 am
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How to Keep the Romance in Your Relationship

They say that relationships have a honeymoon period, the time when everything is new and fresh in a relationship. Then, all of the sudden, that period passes and you are left with a person you love and know well. One of the keys to prolonging the period of discovery in your relationship is to keep the romance in your life. This is a simple task, but takes work and dedication. Follow these steps to keep the romance in your relationship.

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Difficulty: Moderately Easy

Step One
Don’t sweat the small stuff. If your partner does something that mildly annoys you, don’t feel the need to let him/her know every time.

Step Two
Keep the lines of communication wide open. Many problems in a relationship can be traced back to a breakdown in communication. Be honest and open with one another.

Step Three
Remember what you did to make her or her fall in love with you in the first place. Try to be the same sweet person you were when you started dating.

Step Four
Be spontaneous. Everyone loves surprises. Try to incorporate off-the-wall and fun things into your daily life.

Step Five
Take time for the two of you. Set a night each week for a date, even if it's just renting a movie and getting a pizza. You need to have quality time together.

Step Six
Get away. Take a
vacation. Or at the very least, stay overnight in a nice local hotel and act like you are away.

Overall Tips & Warnings
  • Be a giver. Clean up around the house and start to genuinely care about what he or she has to say.
  • Know your own faults and try to improve on them.
  • Remember special occasions and make new ones. Every day can be special when you are in a relationship.
  • Don’t take your relationship for granted.
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Last edited on Mon Jul 16th, 2007 09:34 am by Get Boldened

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 Posted: Mon Jul 16th, 2007 06:51 pm
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I've been married for 38 years so I consider myself good at this marriage thing.  The most important reason we stay committed is that we are best friends.

One thing that we have always found good is that there is no such thing as "her" money and "his" money, it is all OUR money.  We decide together if we can afford that new lathe or piano.

Another good idea is romance.  Coming up with new ideas isn't always necessary for a great sex life, but it spices things up once in a while to do something different, even something simple like throwing rose petals all over the bedroom and lighting candles.  Anything that shows love, gratitude, and joy. 

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 Posted: Wed Jul 18th, 2007 09:22 pm
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Congratulations Gertrudarose, that is truly amazing. I totally agree that his/her money is the number one reason why people separate, green makes you mean!
We have the same philosophy and it really holds the relationship strong, I have known people that have been married for 20 years and they borrow off each other, this just does not make sense to me! It is hard work, but it is also rewarding growing together, and again you have to be friends and talk. I would also consider you to be an expert on the topic.

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 Posted: Fri Jul 20th, 2007 06:30 pm
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Get Boldened wrote: Overall Things You'll Need
What about ....

Bottle of red wine, silence at the place or beautiful sunset on the beach....

Last edited on Fri Jul 20th, 2007 06:30 pm by Octahedron



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